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[Apr. 24th, 2008|03:16 pm] |
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| | crappy | ] | I guess when the time comes, any couple out there is bound to face obstacles of their own. in my case, our time is more or less up. Reasons being, characters clashing? parents' objection? At the end of the day, it's all down to excuses plus more excuses to make yourself feel better about the break up. As i grew up to believe, if your love is strong, you will stand together as one, no matter what happens.
Parents, do they really play a part in relationships? Well, i guess it's possible in my case. But just how much do they actually stand in a relationship? I believe it's pretty much up to the couple to decide, nt any other third parties.
And if you break up with your other half due to parents' objections, is it even an acceptable reason? How many couples out there actually broke up with their girlfriend/boyfriend because of parents? Please, stand out and share with me, it'll probably help to make me feel a whole lot better now. At this moment, i can't help but have the thought of just leaving, rather than leaving him in a difficult spot. 2 years relationship, is it worth me doing it? A huge part of me telling me to hold on and fight for this, convince parents that this relationship is between two people. But honestly, i can't do this alone. |
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hey! just happened to chance by your blog and felt like giving you some encouragement or something. well, my ex bf's parents objected to our relationship. though it wasnt the main reason for us breaking up but it was part of it. we'd always quarrel have arguments and whatnots over the issue that resulted in cracks in the relationship. but i've got friends who push on very strongly despite parental objections! so if you really love each other, i think you both should walk hand in hand and overcome this together. share the weal and woe right? (:
thanks babe! for the little but really sincere encouragement. Do hope my r/s belongs to the stronger group. But like i said, i can't do all these alone. Still, many hugs to you :)
girl, havent been catching up on your entries lately. i don't exactly have any sound advice because if i were in your shoes babe, i'll be torned between pleasing my parents (because you love them) or fighting for that love of your life. ok, i know this is not exactly helping but i really hope you two do come out of this a stronger person (: hugs.
yes babe, been a long time :) heard about your housewarming, pretty house you've got! hmmm, yeah i sure do hope things will turn out for the better soon. been struggling each day..
From: (Anonymous) 2008-04-26 07:29 am (UTC)
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hey ger, sorri for being radom by popping u a reply.. i am a blog hopper and i happen to come across ur entry..
i believe that as long as there is love thgs can be overcomed.. but before deciding and confirming on fightin for the love u have, you have to realli consider and think deep into it..
is this guy deserve the effort?(for u to go strong against family) is this r/s worth to maintain? is this wat u realli want?
i lost a 5 yrs r/s due to a worse reason and no one can ever imagine.. but come to thk back abt it.. i thank him for wat he had done.. cos i am a better person now.. you will be surprise tat actualli u can do alot on ur own...
you are still so young.. theres still lots for u to experience and see
thanks sweetie, you're real nice :)
babe! (: you shouldnt think too much ya. Take me for example, I cant even tell my parents I going out with Randall. I cant even say Im with him / i like him.
Dun give up just because of parents. They tot our love with our partners are just puppy love cos we are still young. Prove to them , your love bond is stronger than they think.
If I and Randall can survive 2.5 years with my mother totally against it.
mahjong soon ok. LOVE
yeah, i understand babe. mahjong soon, that's right :) | |